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“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” ― Bob Marley

 

For those of you, lovely readers, who have spotted the recurrent trend on my blog, I ask you to be patient. No, it’s not going to change, sorry. It’s just that I cannot stand to see women belittling themselves so they can have some sort of pseudo happiness. It’s great to meet The One, I am sure it is. And I am happy for every woman who has met her special someone, but let’s be honest – no person can fill in a void inside your personality. Want to be happy with someone else? Start by being happy with yourself. I believe that a woman can love greatly if she is given the chance. If she can be herself in a relationship, express her feelings and be undeniably authentic, she can return great love. Don’t make being with someone a priority in your life. Don’t set your expectations too high. You have the right to be happy just as much as any other human being. Don’t chase after unrealistic ideas about what the person next to you should be like, or you may never feel that you’ve got enough.

 

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